The Path of Outrageous Love | One Mountain Oral Essays | Dr. Marc Gafni

The Path of Outrageous Love: The Emergence of Homo amor: Towards a Planetary Awakening in Love Through Unique Self Symphonies

One Mountain Oral Essays Volume 20

The Path of Outrageous Love: The Emergence of Homo amor: Towards a Planetary Awakening in Love Through Unique Self Symphonies | One Mountain Many Paths Oral Essays Volume 20 | Dr. Marc Gafni

The Path to Outrageous Love invites readers to awaken to a ground-breaking vision of Reality, one where the very fabric of existence is Eros itself—a dynamic, living force of love. In this transformative work, Marc Gafni calls us to recognize that Reality is not merely a fact, but an Outrageous Love Story.

At the heart of this realization lies the understanding that each of us is an irreducibly unique expression of Eros—the Outrageous Love that drives the Cosmos. This awakening marks the transition from Homo sapiens to Homo amor, the new human and new humanity attuned to intimate connection with each other, the planet, the Divine, and all of Reality. In a time dominated by technological systems and “exterior” sciences, Outrageous Love offers a path forward—a radical call to embrace intimacy and evolve collectively in a world where our irreducible uniqueness, which distinguishes us as unique incarnations of the whole, is celebrated. Indeed, our very uniqueness becomes the currency of our connection.

This book challenges you to live as Homo amor, to commit Outrageous Acts of Love, and to contribute your unique gifts to Reality, affirming that your unique deed will always meet Reality’s unique need. Outrageous Love is an invitation to recognize your place in the madly loving, Erotic Cosmos—and to play your instrument what Marc and Barbara Marx Hubbard call the “Planetary Awaking in Love through Unique Self Symphonies.”

Published by World Philosophy and Religion Press in conjunction with Integral Wisdom Publishers. 

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Title:The Path of Outrageous Love: The Emergence of Homo amor: Towards a Planetary Awakening in Love Through Unique Self Symphonies
Author: Dr. Marc Gafni
Series: Oral Essay Series – Volume 20
Publisher: World Philosophy and Religion Press in conjunction with Integral Wisdom Publishers.
ISBN-13: 979-8888340301
Formats: Paperback, e-book, audiobook.

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Table of Contents

CHAPTER 1    EVERYONE IS ALREADY YOUR FRIEND

  • We Live in Inter-Beingness With Each Other and With All of Reality Itself
  • Telling the New Story: Reality Is an Outrageous Love Story
  • Loving the Moment Open, From the Inside of the Inside
  • Our Revulsion of Evil Is an Expression That We Live in an Intimate Universe
  • Prayer: Intimate Communion With the Infinity of Intimacy
  • Reality and Evolution Is Intimacy

CHAPTER 2     POWER OF, POWER FOR, AND POWER OVER IS HOLY

  • Reality Is a Divine Story in Which There’s More God to Come
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Power Is Holy
  • Prayer: We Turn to God Who Is the Infinity of Personhood
  • Power for the Sake of, and Power Over
  • Loving the Moment Open and Allowing the Moment to Love Me Open
  • Homo amor Is Power
  • Reality Needs Our Power

CHAPTER 3    WE ARE THE TIPPING POINT OF THE DIVINE

  • Evolutionary, Revolutionary Love Is Subversive to the Notion That We’re Contracted and Small
  • To Know My Identity Is to Step Into My Enlightenment
  • Evolutionary Love Code: The Question Is Everything
  • We Are Divine Miniatures but Are Systematically Misrecognized on So Many Levels
  • We Redeem Each Other in Fellowship From the Pain of Our Loneliness
  • Evolution Towards Greater Consciousness and Love

CHAPTER 4     I AM THE EVOLUTION OF LOVE

  • After the Postmodern Deconstruction of Meaning, We’re Here to Begin the Great Reconstructive Project
  • Weaving a New Story in a Bottom-Up Groundswell Towards the Strange Attractor of Wholeness
  • Tocho Ratzuf Ahava: Allurement at Every Evolutionary Stage of Cosmos
  • We Live in an Intimate Universe in Which Every Exchange Is A Love Song
  • Prayer: Homo amor, a Unique Configuration of Intimacy, Turning to the Infinity of Intimacy
  • Evolutionary Love Code: I Am the Evolution of Love
  • I Am an Expression of the Impulse of Creation

CHAPTER 5     ONTOLOGIZING LOVE: LOVE IS REAL

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Love Is Real
  • We Have The Capacity To Create Heaven On Earth, Where Every Human Being Knows: I Am A Unique Configuration Of Evolutionary Love
  • Prayer: The Intimate Face Of Outrageous Love
  • We Live In A World Of Outrageous Pain And The Only Response to Outrageous Pain Is Outrageous Love
  • Who Am I? What Does Reality Need From Me in This Moment?
  • The Practice of Homo amor Is Writing Outrageous Love Letters
  • Unique Self Symphony Committing Outrageous Acts of Love
  • Evolutionary Chakra Meditation: Breathing in the Story of Creation

CHAPTER 6     NO ONE AND NOTHING OUTSIDE THE CIRCLE

  • Becoming Homo amor, The Intimate Universe In Person
  • What Does It Mean to Commit Outrageous Acts of Love?
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Outrageous Acts of Love at the Leading Edge of Evolution
  • By Embracing and Transforming Our Shadow in Outrageous Love, We No Longer Place Others Outside the Circle

CHAPTER 7     THE PATH AND PRACTICE OF HOMO AMOR— OUTRAGEOUS ACTS OF LOVE

  • The Story Is the Evolution of Divinity—and It’s Always a Love Story
  • The Problem: We Put the Boundary in the Wrong Place
  • At the Outrageous Level, the Trinity Becomes One
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Reality Needs Your Service
  • Writing an Outrageous Love Letter
  • Committing Outrageous Acts of Love
  • Outrageous Love Letters and Outrageous Acts of Love: Being and Telling The Miracle
  • This Is the Third Turning of the Wheel

CHAPTER 8     I AM NOT IN THE UNIVERSE; I AM THE UNIVERSE

  • We Are at the Crossroads
  • We Are a Holy Band of Outrageous Lovers
  • We Come Together to Articulate the Best Story of Humanity Ever Told
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Evolution Is Love in Action and I Am Evolution
  • We Are Evolutionary Love: Our Acts of Outrageous Love Are Love in Action
  • God in the Third Person—Cosmic Magnificence—Is Also God in the Second Person, the Infinity of Intimacy Who Knows Our Name
  • To Be the Hero of My Story Is to Commit My Outrageous Acts of Love
  • Outrageous Acts of Love; Outrageous Love Letters
  • The Messiah Lives In the Monastery
  • I’m the Messiah, Responsible for My Unique Outrageous Acts of Love

CHAPTER 9     JUST IN TIME FOR A TIME LIKE THIS: YOU ARE THE ONE YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR

  • The Big Yes of the Big Bang
  • We Need a Global Ethic for a Global Civilization
  • I Am Gloria, I Am Literally a Divine Miniature

CHAPTER 10     BEYOND EROS & AGAPE: ONE LOVE

  • Reality: Its Insides Are Lined With Love
  • God Is the Infinity of Intimacy
  • Prayer: Merging Radical Tenderness and Wild Desire
  • Reality Is Eros, All the Way Up and All the Way Down

CHAPTER 11     EVOLUTIONARY SURPRISE IS THE QUALITY OF DIVINE LOVE

  • We Need a New Story at This Time Between Stories
  • Weaving a New Story: The Leading Edge of Evolution Lives in the Surprise That I Bring to Cosmos
  • Sabbath: Fall in Love in the Morning, Trust and Be Trusted Through the Night
  • Are You Willing to Be Surprised by Reality?
  • Elegant Order and Radical Surprise—God the King/Queen And God the Lover
  • Homo Amor Is a Memory of the Future
  • The Dance of Order and Freedom
  • Don’t Travel to Distant Places; See With Fresh Eyes
  • Reality Is Being Constantly Generated Anew

CHAPTER 12     OUTRAGE + LOVE = OUTRAGEOUS LOVE: THE SYNERGY OF SACRED ACTIVISM

  • We Stand Poised Between Utopia and Dystopia
  • A Shared Story Weaving Together the Deepest Validated Insights Across Time
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Outrageous Love—The Synergy of Outrage and Love
  • Leonard Cohen Was a Lover
  • What Is the Quality of Homo Amor, of the Outrageous Lover?
  • Outrageous Love: Outrage and Love
  • The Character of the Outrageous Lover
  • We’ve Got to Beware of the Hijacking of Outrage
  • Hijacking of the Fierce Feminine
  • We Hold Outrage With Tender Care and Bring Together With Love
  • Five Qualities That Bring Outrage and Love Together
  • As an Outrageous Lover I Take My Unique Risk and Perform My Outrageous Acts of Love
  • Quality Five: I’m Partner With the Larger Force of Cosmos That Holds Me
  • Recapitulation of the Five Characteristics of Bringing Outrage and Love Together in Outrageous Love

CHAPTER 13     THE EMERGENCE OF HOMO AMOR: TRANSFORMING THE WAY WE LOVE

  • The Archimedian Lever at This Time Is Telling a New Story of Value
  • Reclaiming Prayer From the Politically Corrupt Prisms of Ethnocentric Consciousness
  • The Cosmos Is Amorous
  • We Pray Together in This Glorious and Ecstatically Urgent Moment
  • Writing Outrageous Love Letters
  • Outrageous Acts of Love
  • The Simple Principle of Uniqueness, Repeated Into Gorgeous Complexity With Allurement Between the Parts
  • Outrageous Love Story
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Your Story and My Story Are Chapter and Verse in the Universe: A Love Story
  • These Same Plotlines Run Throughout All the Big Bangs
  • I’m Willing to Let You Love Me Unconditionally
  • The Pre-Tragic, Tragic and Post-Tragic Stages of Unconditional Love

CHAPTER 14     THERE’S NO ULTIMATE DISTINCTION BETWEEN COSMIC LOVE AND PERSONAL LOVE

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Love Is the Heart of Existence Itself
  • Love Is Real and It Lives in Every Moment
  • Three Faces of the Real
  • Enlightenment Is Sanity
  • In the Process of Evolution, Spirit Becomes More
  • Reality Is the Movement Towards God by the Gentle Persuasion of Love
  • Evolution at Its Very Core Is Yearning
  • Reality Is Governed by Tenets of Intimacy
  • Being Lived as Love Is Post-Tragic

CHAPTER 15     THE CREDO OF THE OUTRAGEOUS LOVER: TEN PRINCIPLES OF OUTRAGEOUS LOVE

  • There Is No Other Way to Respond to the Meta-Crisis
  • We Live in a World of Outrageous Pain, and the Only Response to Outrageous Pain Is Outrageous Love
  • We Live in a World of Outrageous Beauty
  • I Am an Outrageous Lover
  • Outrageous Love Is the Heart of Existence Itself
  • The Outrageous Lover Commits Outrageous Acts of Love
  • Outrageous Acts of Love Are Function of Unique Self
  • We Need to Close the Gap Between Our Ability to Feel the Pain and Our Ability to Heal The Pain
  • Outrageous Acts of Love Address a Unique Need in a Unique Circle of Intimacy and Influence
  • Planetary Awakening in Love Through Unique Self Symphonies
  • Evolutionary Family Is More Important Than Biological Family
  • Let Us Be Lived as Love

CHAPTER 16     SYRIA AND TURKEY EARTHQUAKE: THE ONLY RESPONSE TO OUTRAGEOUS PAIN IS OUTRAGEOUS LOVE

  • How Do We Hold the Truth of a Loving Universe and the Truth of Outrageous Pain at the Same Time?
  • Suffering Is Real and It’s Obscene to Explain It Away
  • We Demand Accountability From the Divine
  • We Protest Because We Know That Love Is Real
  • Fairness Is a Core Value of Reality
  • The Hidden and the Revealed
  • It Is Not Over When It’s Over
  • Reality Is a Love Story

CHAPTER 17     SYRIA AND TURKEY EARTHQUAKE—THE ONLY RESPONSE TO OUTRAGEOUS PAIN OUTRAGEOUS LOVE, PART 2

  • Even as We Face Outrageous Pain, We Need to Be in Outrageous Love
  • The Mystery of Suffering
  • Don’t Rely on God in the Face of Outrageous Pain
  • Evil Is a Failure of Pleasure
  • The Whole Thing Depends on Us

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

  • Is It Mine to Heal the Whole Thing?
  • Do We Create Our Own Suffering?
  • How Can Pleasure Be The Source of All Ethics?

CHAPTER 18     OUTRAGEOUS LOVE BEGINS WITH RAGE: THE HOLY OUTRAGE OF THE PROPHET

  • Why Do We Call Outrageous Love Outrageous?
  • Outrageous Love Has to Include Holy Outrage
  • Outrage and Love Are the Same Word
  • We Cannot Stop at Outrage
  • To Love Outrageously Is to Put It All on the Line
  • Write A Check of Your Open Heart
  • Evolution Is Love in Action

CHAPTER 19     THERE IS ONLY ONE SIDE, THE SIDE OF LOVE: TEN PRINCIPLES

  • The Malaise of Polarization
  • We All Stand Together on the Side of Love
  • Love Doesn’t Erase Distinctions
  • Evolutionary Love Code: There Is Only One Side, the Side of Love
  • Principle One: You Can’t Love Unless You Can Laugh Together
  • Principle Two: Love Is the Movement Between Certainty and Uncertainty
  • Principle Three: Feel Me Feeling You
  • Principle Four: Love Extends Time and Holds the Present, Past, and Future
  • Principle Five: To Love Is to Know
  • Principle Six: Love Is a Bracketing of the Ego
  • Principle Seven: Love Is a Perception
  • Principle Eight: Love Is the Energy of Transformation
  • Principle Nine: Love Demands a Post-Tragic Embrace
  • Principle Ten: Trace Every Story Back to Its Roots

CHAPTER 20     LOVE DEMANDS TRANSFORMATION: CROSSING OVER TO THE SIDE OF LOVE

  • The Crossing
  • The Battle Between Good and Evil Invites Me to the Crossing
  • Evolutionary Love Code: There Is Only One Side, the Side Of Love
  • Even as Love Crowns You, Shall He Crucify You
  • Love Moves Us Towards Transformation
  • We Have to Feel Each Other, Across Any Boundaries
  • No One Is Outside the Circle
  • Practice: I Bracket Myself, and I Cross Over to the Other Side
  • Being on the Side of Love Doesn’t Mean Moral Equivalence

CHAPTER 21     THE EMERGENCE OF HOMO AMOR: TRANSFORMING THE WAY WE LOVE

  • Eulogy Is Liberation From Loneliness
  • All of Reality Is Great Seduction
  • Radha’s Energy
  • The Story of Krishna and Radha
  • Radha’s Wound
  • The Bliss of the Pain of Separation
  • The Path of Outrageous Love
  • Postscript: From Pre-Tragic to Post-Tragic Seduction
  • Hope at the Edge of the Tragic: Post-Tragic Krishna-and-Radha
  • Outrageous Love Is the Ultimate Path of Self-Realization
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About the Authors:

Dr. Marc GafniDr. Marc Gafni is a leading public intellectual and teacher impacting the source code of global culture.

Gafni is a visionary thinker, social activist and passionate philosopher. He is known for his “source code teachings”, including Unique Self theory and the Five Selves, the Amorous Cosmos, A Politics of Evolutionary Love, A Return to Eros and Digital Intimacy.

He is author of twenty five books, of which the first ten have been published, including the award-winning Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment.

He holds his doctorate in philosophy from Oxford University, as well as Orthodox rabbinic ordination.

He teaches on the cutting edge of philosophy in the West, helping to evolve a new ‘dharma’ or meta-theory of Integral meaning that is helping to re-shape key pivoting points in global consciousness and culture, with the aim of participating in the articulation of what Dr. Gafni together with Dr. Zak Stein and colleagues are calling CosmoErotic Humanism.

At the core of CosmoErotic Humanism is what Dr. Gafni and Dr. Stein are calling ‘First Principles and First Values’, Anthro-Ontology and a “Universal Grammar of Value”.

This is the ground of a new shared universe story and a new narrative of identity for the new human and the new humanity. This is what they are calling the emergence from Homo sapiens to Homo Amor.

This shared story rooted in First Principles and First Values can then serve as the matrix for a global ethos for a global civilization.

Gafni is considered by many to be a kind of Einstein of Philosophy who is leading a team of thinkers articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.

Dr. Gafni is the Co-Founder together with Ken Wilber and Sally Kempton of the Center for World Philosophy and Religion where he serves as its co-president. Together with Dr. Zak Stein, they are co-leading a team of thinkers, articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.

In 2014 Dr. Gafni co-initiated the Success 3.0 Summit and Rise Up movie, whose method and movement is to bring together key thought leaders and change-agents to collaboratively evolve a bold new Integral vision of Success, rooted in the entrepreneurial values of Wake Up, Grow Up, Show Up, and Outrageous Love.

Over the past 30 years, Dr. Gafni has developed evolutionary and activist programs rooted in his commitment to what he has termed “participating in the evolution of love.” Together with author and social innovator Barbara Marx Hubbard, he is working on a series of new works revolving around Evolutionary Spirituality.

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The Existential Risk of Technology | One Mountain Oral Essays | Dr. Marc Gafni

The Existential Risk of Technology: The Death of Our Humanity: Reclaiming Value, Intimacy, and Outrageous Love in the Digital Age: From Algorithmic Alienation to the Evolution of Intimacy

One Mountain Oral Essays Volume 18

The Existential Risk of Technology: The Death of Our Humanity: Reclaiming Value, Intimacy, and Outrageous Love in the Digital Age: From Algorithmic Alienation to the Evolution of Intimacy | One Mountain Many Paths Oral Essays Volume 18 | Dr. Marc Gafni

In this critical time between worlds, technology is shaping the future of our lives, both as individual human beings and collectively as a species. Technology has brought great blessings in multiple vectors, and those benefits are regularly sung in the public sphere. However, the notion that technology is value-neutral is simply not true. All technology is encoded with value, pseudo-value—or tragically, with anti-value. So technology also threatens us with risks to our very existence on this planet.

There are two forms of existential risk: the potential death of humanity—an extinction event—and the potential death of our humanity. One primary cause for the death of our humanity is what we are referring to as the emergent “tech plex,” an immersive digital temple disassociated from the Field of Value. At the heart of the tech plex is the “planetary stack” that currently wires the entire planet—the increasing interconnection of algorithmic and technological infrastructure, social structure, and superstructure that encircles the globe. The result is upgraded algorithms and downgraded humanity, which is one main cause for the potential death of our humanity.

Interconnectivity without Intimacy.

In order to avoid this form of existential risk, we must respond with a new Story of Value. This story must be rooted in First Principles and First Values, which are not mere social conventions that humans have invented but rather the inherent value structure of the Intimate Cosmos that humans discover and evolve.

All of Reality arises from the ground of what eastern wisdom called the Tao, the Way, and which we refer to as the Field of Value. The Field of Value is the ground of eternal value that is ever-evolving. The tech plex, as currently conceived, experiences itself as disassociated from the Tao, from the Field of Value.

In this book, we begin to articulate a new Story of Value. This new Story is a scientifically grounded, creative, and joyful response to the alienated tech plex that relocates us deep in the Field of Value that lies at the heart of the CosmoErotic Universe. We reconnect the immersive environment of technology with Evolution: The Love Story of Universe, whose plotline is the progressive deepening of intimacies, animated at all levels by the pulse of Outrageous Love.

Published by World Philosophy and Religion Press in conjunction with Integral Wisdom Publishers. 

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Title: The Existential Risk of Technology: The Death of Our Humanity: Reclaiming Value, Intimacy, and Outrageous Love in the Digital Age: From Algorithmic Alienation to the Evolution of Intimacy
Author: Dr. Marc Gafni
Series: Oral Essay Series – Volume 18
Publisher: World Philosophy and Religion Press in conjunction with Integral Wisdom Publishers.
ISBN-13: 979-8888340226
Formats: Paperback, e-book, audiobook.

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CHAPTER 1 SURVEILLANCE CAPITALISM: “WE’RE GOING TO STEAL YOUR EXPERIENCE WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION”

  • First Principles and First Values Account for the Critiques of Natural Law and Perennial Philosophy
  • Mistaken Assumptions of Natural Law and Perennial Philosophy
  • Critiques by Postmodernity of Natural Law and Perennial Philosophy
  • Postmodernity’s Critique of Perennialism and Natural Law Is True but Partial, and It Ignores Responsibility to Any Larger Grand Narrative—Except the Success Story
  • The Nervous System of the Planet Is the Web, the Worldwide Virtual World
  • Google’s Business Model Is Surveillance Capitalism
  • Facebook Hijacks Your Attention, Takes Your Information and Targets You With Ads, Thereby Compromising the Free Movement of Economy and Governance
  • We Are Unaware of the Threat to Universal Human Rights
  • The Failure to Articulate the Case Against the Tech Plex Is Rooted in a Failure of First Principles and First Values
  • Surveillance Capitalism: We’re Going to Steal Your Experience Without Your Permission
  • The Six Declarations of Google
  • Instead of Solving Existential and Catastrophic Risk, Our Best Minds Are Caught in the Success Story
  • From Holdables to Wearables to Biometric Sensors
  • First Principles and First Values Refute Surveillance Capitalism
  • Exposing the Inner Structure in Which Human Experience Is Being Stolen
  • The Direct, First-Person Experience of Reality Coming Alive in Me

CHAPTER 2 DIAGNOSING THE TECH PLEX: FROM DIGITAL DICTATORSHIP TO DIGITAL INTIMACY, FROM SOCIAL SELF TO UNIQUE SELF, FROM SOCIAL HIVE TO UNIQUE SELF SYMPHONIES

  • Evolutionary Love Code: The Unique Self Is Under Attack by the Tech Plex
  • The Articulation of Unique Self Consciousness Is the Overriding Moral Imperative of This Generation
  • Separate Self, Social Self, True Self, and Unique Self
  • I Am Irreducibly Valuable As a Unique Emergent of the Whole
  • Your Unique Self Is Your Unique Response-Ability to Reality
  • Your Unique Self Has Irreducible Value
  • B.F. Skinner: The Human Being Is a Social Self
  • B.F. Skinner: Let’s Nullify the Autonomous Man, the Inner Man
  • Skinner’s Approach—Nullifying the Autonomous Man—Is the Basis of Social Media
  • C.S. Lewis vs. B.F. Skinner: The Abolition of Man, the Abolition of Human Society
  • However Misguided, Skinner Is Responding to Existential Risk and Critiquing Separate Self As the Source of Human Dignity
  • Skinner Did Not Have the Tools to Develop Technologies of Human Behavior
  • Alex Pentland, One of the Architects of the Web, Is a Direct Continuation of Skinner
  • Pentland: Data Science Is the New Physics Which Will Allow Us to Enact a New Vision of Society
  • The Founders of the Tech Plex Adopt the Vision of Skinner and Pentland
  • Social Media Is an Expression of Skinner’s Walden Two
  • We Need to Replace the Understanding of Natural Law With Evolving Perennialism, an Evolving Set of First Values and First Principles
  • The Tech Plex: We Are Organizing Society as Social Selves
  • True Self and Unique Self Are Ignored by the Tech Plex
  • Unseen, Pentland and Skinner Have Formed the Thinking of the Tech Plex, Which Arrogates to Itself the Right to Your Experience
  • Personal Data Is Currently Being Used by Machine Intelligence Algorithms to Compromise the Two Basic Identities of Democracy: the Voter and the Consumer
  • Under-The-Skin Surveillance Is the Next Step and Will Result in Digital Dictatorships
  • The Postmodern Deconstruction of Value Together With Surveillance Capitalism Results in the “Conditioners” Predicted by C.S. Lewis
  • We Need to Respond to Social Self With Unique Self
  • The Power and Profit Agenda Together With Utopianism, Sans First Principles and First Values
  • Imagine What Happens When a Dictatorship Owns Data
  • In the Absence of Unique Self, Social Self Became the Animating Energy of the Nervous System of the Planet
  • Our Job Is to Engage in a Reconstructive Project of Value so We Can Muster the Necessary Outrage Against the Tech Plex

CHAPTER 3 THE NEW EXISTENTIAL RISK: NOT THE DEATH OF HUMANITY BUT THE DEATH OF OUR HUMANITY—THE DEHUMANIZING CREEP OF MACHINE INTELLIGENCE

  • We’re Here to Tell the New Story
  • Existential Risk: The End of Humanity
  • Existential Risk Due to Rivalrous Conflict
  • We Need a New Story of Value Grounded in First Principles and First Values
  • Articulation of a Second Form of Existential Risk: The Death of Our Humanity
  • Living Within the Tao
  • It’s Not That We Become Bad Human Beings, but That We Cease Being Human
  • The Quality of Your Unique Voice Is Sacred
  • Evolutionary Love Code: You Are a Unique Self
  • Deep Inwardness Is Where We Create Meaning

CHAPTER 4 THE UNIQUE SELF RESPONSE TO THE EXISTENTIAL RISK OF THE TECH PLEX

  • The Human Being As a Unique Configuration of Evolutionary Love
  • Recoding the Algorithmic Structure of the Nervous System of the Planet
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Unique Voice, Prayer, and the Tech Plex
  • A Revolution of Self: Re-“Self”ing

CHAPTER 5 RE-SELFING THE HEART OF THE COSMOS: ACTIVATING UNIQUE SELF AND UNIQUE SELF SYMPHONIES

  • We Are a Band of Outrageous Lovers, Revolutionaries Who Are Evolving the Source Code of Culture
  • We Need a New Story of Value, Grounded in First Principles and First Values
  • Evolutionary Love Code: The Unique Self Is the Inward Space of Uniquely Lived Experience From Which Meaning Is Discovered
  • The First Principles and First Values of Prayer

CHAPTER 6 GOD NEEDS YOUR SERVICE: THE GREAT DIVINE RISK, THE FIRST PRINCIPLE OF UNIQUE SELF

  • The Choice Is Ours: We Can Either Destroy Ourselves or Become a Model for Life in the Galaxy
  • The Story of Humanity Is God’s Great Risk
  • Evolutionary Love Code: Your Unique Gift Addresses a Unique Need
  • First Principles and First Values of Cosmos: Three Primordial Perspectives

CHAPTER 7 FROM THE HUMILIATION OF NEED TO “YOUR NEED IS MY ALLUREMENT”

  • Setting Our Intention: Recoding the Source Code in Order to Be at Home in Reality
  • Our Deepest Experience of Love Points to The Experience of Cosmos With Itself
  • Evolutionary Love Code: If You Ask, You Must Surely Need—Your Need Is My Allurement
  • Cosmos Is a Love Story, and Love Always Responds to Genuine Need
  • In Prayer, God Says, “Your Need Is My Allurement”
  • The Practice: Prayer Is Always in Some Way Held and Heard and Responded to
  • “Your Need Is My Allurement” Restores the Dignity of Need and Eviscerates Shame
  • The Shame in Getting My Needs Met Can Be Healed in the Sexual
  • We Participate in the Allurement of Reality, and When That Allurement Is Broken We Have a Desperate Need

EPISODE 228: IF YOU ASK, YOU MUST SURELY NEED: YOUR NEED IS MY ALLUREMENT

  • Setting Our Intention: Humans Are Homo Imaginus
  • Homo amor Accesses His/Her Unique Outrageous Acts Of Love Through Imagination
  • Seeking Intimacy Is a Feature of Reality Evolving Through Us
  • Story: The Baal Shem Tov—“If You Ask, You Must Surely Need”
  • Your Need Is My Allurement

CHAPTER 8 THE TAO THAT CAN BE CODED IS NOT THE TAO: EVOLVING HUMANITY BEYOND ALGORITHMS

  • Telling a New Story Rooted in Eternal and Evolving Values
  • Evolutionary Love Code: To Think We Have Stepped Out of the Tao Is the Greatest Existential Risk of All
  • The Tao That Can Be Spoken Is Not the Tao
  • The Death of Our Humanity Begins When We Think We’ve Stepped Out of the Tao

CHAPTER 9 YOUR HOLY AND YOUR BROKEN ARE BOTH HALLELUJAH: BEING THE NEW HUMAN IN THE TAO

  • We Are a Unique Self Symphony, an Emergent Expression of the Tao
  • The Unique Self Symphony in Response to the Tech Plex
  • Imagine a Unique Self Facebook With 7.7 Billion Users Joining Together in Symphony
  • Evolutionary Love Code: The Eternal Tao Is the Evolving Tao
  • Love Is Both Eternal and It Evolves
  • The Tao Is the Realization of the Unquantifiable Value of a Human Being
  • There’s a Shattering in Everything That Reality Has Made—That’s How the Light Gets in
  • Reshimu: Traces of Transcendence

CHAPTER 10 EVOLUTION IS PERSONAL: A SCIENTIFIC TRUTH

  • We Are Evolution in Person
  • Re-reading Neurochemistry as an Expression of the Intimate Universe
  • In Prayer We Turn to the Infinity of Intimacy That Knows Our Name
  • The Internet Is the Shallows, the Clarified Heart-Mind Expresses Depth

CHAPTER 11 THE ARC OF THE INTIMATE UNIVERSE BENDS TOWARD EVOLUTIONARY UNIQUE SELF

  • Reality Moves Towards More Intimacy, Wholeness, Aliveness, Depth, Ecstasy, and Kindness
  • The Principles of Revolution: Telling the New Story
  • All of Reality Is Intimate, All the Way Up and All the Way Down
  • The Internet Must Be Recoded From “The Shallows” to Depth and Intimacy
  • Who Am I? The Separate-Self Narrative
  • Who Am I? The Social-Self Narrative
  • Who Am I? The Unique-Self Narrative
  • Social Self: Rats in the Maze of the Tech Plex
  • Unique Self as Part of a Symphony

CHAPTER 12 THE GOOD NEWS: HOMO AMOR, WE ARE ALL NEEDED

  • The Dangers of Inaccurate, Partial Stories
  • Reclaiming the Evangelical Spark That Has Been Hijacked
  • To Be an Evangelist Is to Be an Outrageous Lover
  • Outrageous Love: We’re Outraged
  • Evolutionary Love Code: For True Evangelism We Need Both Ecstatic States and Developmental Stages
  • In Every Great Tradition There’s an Intimate Incarnation of the Divine
  • Passover: Reclaiming the Broken Part
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About the Author:

Dr. Marc GafniDr. Marc Gafni is a leading public intellectual and teacher impacting the source code of global culture.

Gafni is a visionary thinker, social activist and passionate philosopher. He is known for his “source code teachings”, including Unique Self theory and the Five Selves, the Amorous Cosmos, A Politics of Evolutionary Love, A Return to Eros and Digital Intimacy.

He is author of twenty five books, of which the first ten have been published, including the award-winning Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment.

He holds his doctorate in philosophy from Oxford University, as well as Orthodox rabbinic ordination.

He teaches on the cutting edge of philosophy in the West, helping to evolve a new ‘dharma’ or meta-theory of Integral meaning that is helping to re-shape key pivoting points in global consciousness and culture, with the aim of participating in the articulation of what Dr. Gafni together with Dr. Zak Stein and colleagues are calling CosmoErotic Humanism.

At the core of CosmoErotic Humanism is what Dr. Gafni and Dr. Stein are calling ‘First Principles and First Values’, Anthro-Ontology and a “Universal Grammar of Value”.

This is the ground of a new shared universe story and a new narrative of identity for the new human and the new humanity. This is what they are calling the emergence from Homo sapiens to Homo Amor.

This shared story rooted in First Principles and First Values can then serve as the matrix for a global ethos for a global civilization.

Gafni is considered by many to be a kind of Einstein of Philosophy who is leading a team of thinkers articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.

Dr. Gafni is the Co-Founder together with Ken Wilber and Sally Kempton of the Center for World Philosophy and Religion where he serves as its co-president. Together with Dr. Zak Stein, they are co-leading a team of thinkers, articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.

In 2014 Dr. Gafni co-initiated the Success 3.0 Summit and Rise Up movie, whose method and movement is to bring together key thought leaders and change-agents to collaboratively evolve a bold new Integral vision of Success, rooted in the entrepreneurial values of Wake Up, Grow Up, Show Up, and Outrageous Love.

Over the past 30 years, Dr. Gafni has developed evolutionary and activist programs rooted in his commitment to what he has termed “participating in the evolution of love.” Together with author and social innovator Barbara Marx Hubbard, he is working on a series of new works revolving around Evolutionary Spirituality.

Read more… 

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Explore more:

Explore the Great Library:
Center for World Philosophy & Religion – Oral Essay Series → https://worldphilosophyandreligion.org/books/

Learn about the full Oral Essays series:
Complete Oral Essay Series → https://worldphilosophyandreligion.org/oral-essays-series-one-mountain-marc-gafni/

Dr. Marc Gafni Official Website: 
https://marcgafni.com/

Center for World Philosophy and Religion:
https://worldphilosophyandreligion.org/

Free Weekly Broadcast with Dr. Marc Gafni:
https://www.onemountainmanypaths.org/

Join the community Who We Must Become: 
https://who-we-must-become-3166d4.circle.so/ 

Free Unique Self Mini Course:
https://www.uniqueselfinstitute.com/the-unique-self-mini-course/

Formal refutations on controversy: 
WhoIsMarcGafni.com

Social Media Dr. Marc Gafni: 

Substack: https://substack.com/@marcgafni
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcgafni/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MarcGafni
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrMarcGafni
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarcgafni/
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The Existential Risk of Technology | One Mountain Oral Essays | Dr. Marc Gafni2025-07-20T17:25:13-07:00

We Are Evolution in Person | One Mountain Oral Essays | Dr. Marc Gafni and Barbara Marx Hubbard

We Are Evolution in Person: Reclaiming Identity, Integrity, and Intimacy at the Core of Reality: Your Outrageous Acts of Love Ripple Through the Evolutionary Field

One Mountain Oral Essays Volume 10

We Are Evolution in Person: Reclaiming Identity, Integrity, and Intimacy at the Core of Reality: Your Outrageous Acts of Love Ripple Through the Evolutionary Field | One Mountain Many Paths Oral Essays Volume 10 | Dr. Marc Gafni

Who am I? In this book, we respond to that question by reclaiming the truth of our identity as Evolution in Person—not as a contrivance or social construction but rather rooted in the best integration of the great interior and exterior sciences.
We are not separate selves, but Unique Selves—irreducibly unique expressions of the LoveIntelligence and LoveBeauty that is the initiating and animating Eros of Cosmos, living in us, as us, and through us.
An essential part of reclaiming our larger identity is the question of gender identity. Dr Gafni frames the transgender movement as a radical quest for a larger identity beyond and underneath gender. We move from the binary of clear “man” or “woman” to “Unique Gender”—we are each a unique configuration of line and circle qualities. These line and circle qualities are primal expressions of what later became the engendered qualities of masculine and feminine. They are the primordial energies of masculine and feminine, from the first nanoseconds of the Big Bang, well before the emergence of gender.
This evolution of gender identity is part of the wider movement of the evolution of intimacy. Intimacy begins with ourselves, when we remember our true identity and stand in the integrity of that knowing. From there, intimacy widens into our relationships with others and ultimately with the Cosmos itself. By evolving our capacity for intimacy, we align with the evolutionary impulse itself. We become ripplers of Evolutionary Love, as our Outrageous Acts of Love ripple through the entire field of Reality and change the source code of who we are.
We are Evolution in Person.
This is who we are.

These oral essays are edited talks delivered by Dr. Marc Gafni and Barbara Marx Hubbard between July and September 2018.

Published by World Philosophy and Religion Press in conjunction with Integral Wisdom Publishers. 

Book details:

Title: We Are Evolution in Person: Reclaiming Identity, Integrity, and Intimacy at the Core of Reality: Your Outrageous Acts of Love Ripple Through the Evolutionary Field
Author: Dr. Marc Gafni and Barbara Marx Hubbard
Series: Oral Essay Series – Volume 10
Publisher: World Philosophy and Religion Press in conjunction with Integral Wisdom Publishers.
ISBN-13: 979-8888340776
Formats: Paperback, e-book, audiobook.

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Table of Contents

CHAPTER 1    I AM A RIPPLER OF LOVE

  • We Stand for Evolutionary Integrity
  • Become Ripplers of Evolutionary Love
  • Healing the Fear of Separation Is Necessary
  • The Movement from Fear to Love Transforms Everything
  • We Have to Be Heroes in the Private Moments

CHAPTER 2    UNIQUE GENDER—THE EVOLUTION OF ‘MAN’ AND ‘WOMAN’

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Unique Gender as Part of a Liberation Movement
  • There Is Something Deeper Underneath the Transgender Question
  • We Pray for Wholeness in Our Unique Gender
  • From Self-Reproduction to Self-Evolution
  • The Great Library Is a Library of the Evolution of Evolution
  • The Evolution From “Man” and “Woman” to Unique Gender

CHAPTER 3    INTIMATE COMMUNION IS SUBVERSIVE AND THE ONLY WAY THROUGH

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Homo Amor Universalis Practices Intimate Communion
  • Intimacy Is Sanity
  • Intimate Communion and the New Story Are Key to Evolution
  • How to Bring Intimate Communion into Political Revolution
  • Intimate Communion Is the Only Road to World Transformation

CHAPTER 4    GOD IS THE POSSIBILITY OF POSSIBILITY: EMERGENCY GENERATES EMERGENCE

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Intimacy in Action
  • We Pray to the God Inherent in Us and Who Holds Us
  • We Are a Microcosm of Synergistic Democracy
  • We Are Evolution in Person: We Are Claiming Our Identity
  • New Possibility Through New Configurations of Intimacy

CHAPTER 5    CONFESSION OF GREATNESS AND THE BIG YES TO MY UNIQUE RISK

  • Evolutionary Love Code: The Infinity of Intimacy Sources Reality
  • Christ Teaches That God Says Your Need Is My Allurement
  • Say Yes to the Christ Energy Within
  • True Confession Is a Confession of Greatness
  • We Express Our Greatness When We Take Our Unique Risk

CHAPTER 6    GOD IS THE INFINITY OF INTIMACY OF POSSIBILITY

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Every Crisis Is a Crisis of Intimacy
  • We Are Articulating a New Configuration of Intimacy
  • We Are Intimate With the Divine
  • Intimacy Generates Emergence and Greater Wholes

CHAPTER 7    FEELINGS MATTER—TRACING FEELINGS TO THEIR ROOT

  • Evolutionary Love Code: Reality Is Calling Us Forward to Participate in the Evolution of Love
  • Prayer Reveals My Intimacy With All-That-Is
  • Tracing God’s Purpose and Our Own Yes
  • Reality Needs My Feeling
  • On the Inside of the Inside God, Goddess Feels With Us

CHAPTER 8    IN THE DEPTH OF LOVE, WE KNOW WE ARE NEEDED, INFINITELY, CRAZILY NEEDED

  • Evolutionary Love Code: The New Story Is the New Intimacy
  • We Need to Do Something New
  • We Can Completely Overcome Divisions as the New Species
  • Reality Needs My Devotion

CHAPTER 9    SHE SAYS: “YOUR NEED IS MY ALLUREMENT”

  • We Are Hosting the Birth of the New Species
  • Outrageous Love Is Restoring Intimacy
  • Breakthrough Emerges From Breakdown
  • “Your Need Is My Allurement” Heals Our Humiliation
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About the Authors:

Dr. Marc GafniDr. Marc Gafni is a leading public intellectual and teacher impacting the source code of global culture.

Gafni is a visionary thinker, social activist and passionate philosopher. He is known for his “source code teachings”, including Unique Self theory and the Five Selves, the Amorous Cosmos, A Politics of Evolutionary Love, A Return to Eros and Digital Intimacy.

He is author of twenty five books, of which the first ten have been published, including the award-winning Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment.

He holds his doctorate in philosophy from Oxford University, as well as Orthodox rabbinic ordination.

He teaches on the cutting edge of philosophy in the West, helping to evolve a new ‘dharma’ or meta-theory of Integral meaning that is helping to re-shape key pivoting points in global consciousness and culture, with the aim of participating in the articulation of what Dr. Gafni together with Dr. Zak Stein and colleagues are calling CosmoErotic Humanism.

At the core of CosmoErotic Humanism is what Dr. Gafni and Dr. Stein are calling ‘First Principles and First Values’, Anthro-Ontology and a “Universal Grammar of Value”.

This is the ground of a new shared universe story and a new narrative of identity for the new human and the new humanity. This is what they are calling the emergence from Homo sapiens to Homo Amor.

This shared story rooted in First Principles and First Values can then serve as the matrix for a global ethos for a global civilization.

Gafni is considered by many to be a kind of Einstein of Philosophy who is leading a team of thinkers articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.

Dr. Gafni is the Co-Founder together with Ken Wilber and Sally Kempton of the Center for World Philosophy and Religion where he serves as its co-president. Together with Dr. Zak Stein, they are co-leading a team of thinkers, articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.

In 2014 Dr. Gafni co-initiated the Success 3.0 Summit and Rise Up movie, whose method and movement is to bring together key thought leaders and change-agents to collaboratively evolve a bold new Integral vision of Success, rooted in the entrepreneurial values of Wake Up, Grow Up, Show Up, and Outrageous Love.

Over the past 30 years, Dr. Gafni has developed evolutionary and activist programs rooted in his commitment to what he has termed “participating in the evolution of love.” Together with author and social innovator Barbara Marx Hubbard, he is working on a series of new works revolving around Evolutionary Spirituality.

Read more… 

Barbara Marx HubbardBarbara Marx Hubbard (born Barbara Marx; December 22, 1929–April 10, 2019) was an American futurist, author, and public speaker. She is credited with the Wheel of Co-Creation and together with Dr. Gafni, the Wheel of Co-Creation 2.0, as well as the concepts of the Synergy Engine and the “birthing” of humanity.

As co-founder and president of the Foundation for Conscious Evolution and the chair, for the last five years of her life, of the Center for World Philosophy and Religion, she posited that humanity was on the threshold of a quantum leap if newly emergent scientific, social, and spiritual capacities were integrated to address global crises.

She was the author of seven books on social and planetary evolution. In conjunction with the Shift Network, she co-produced the worldwide “Birth 2012” multimedia event. She was also the subject of a biography by author Neale Donald Walsch, The Mother of Invention: The Legacy of Barbara Marx Hubbard, and the Future of “YOU”. Deepak Chopra called her “the voice for conscious evolution.”

In 1984, she was symbolically nominated for the vice presidency of the United States. She also co-chaired a number of Soviet-American Citizen Summits, introducing a new concept called SYNCON, to foster synergistic convergence with opposing groups. In addition, she co-founded the World Future Society and the Association for Global New Thought.

Gafni is a leading public intellectual impacting the source code of global culture. He is also a forger of new trails in the evolution of intimacy and love. In his own self-description, “Like all of us I am a flawed human being, an imperfect vessel for the light, radically committed to constant healing, transformation, and the evolution of love.” He has led international spiritual movements and learning communities, as well as created and hosted for several seasons a popular national Israeli television program on culture, meaning, and spirit on Israel’s leading network. Over the past 30 years, Dr. Gafni has developed educational programs, papers and content rooted in traditional wisdom and yet fully adapted to the needs of the contemporary world.

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Explore more:

Explore the Great Library:
Center for World Philosophy & Religion – Oral Essay Series → https://worldphilosophyandreligion.org/books/

Learn about the full Oral Essays series:
Complete Oral Essay Series → https://worldphilosophyandreligion.org/oral-essays-series-one-mountain-marc-gafni/

Dr. Marc Gafni Official Website: 
https://marcgafni.com/

Center for World Philosophy and Religion:
https://worldphilosophyandreligion.org/

Free Weekly Broadcast with Dr. Marc Gafni:
https://www.onemountainmanypaths.org/

Join the community Who We Must Become: 
https://who-we-must-become-3166d4.circle.so/ 

Free Unique Self Mini Course:
https://www.uniqueselfinstitute.com/the-unique-self-mini-course/

Formal refutations on controversy: 
WhoIsMarcGafni.com

Social Media Dr. Marc Gafni: 

Substack: https://substack.com/@marcgafni
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcgafni/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MarcGafni
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrMarcGafni
Twitter:https://twitter.com/MarcGafni
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarcgafni/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drmarcgafni 

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We Are Evolution in Person | One Mountain Oral Essays | Dr. Marc Gafni and Barbara Marx Hubbard2025-07-17T13:53:41-07:00

Dr. Marc Gafni: Evolutionary Unique Self & the Unique Self Symphony

The Law of Feeling and Healing

The Law of Feeling and Healing, while simple in explanation, is quite profound. As the gateway to a seemingly impossible evolutionary shift, this law is our access to the divinity and untold amounts of love, joy, and connection.

Fifty years ago, God was experienced by the great realizers and religions as both all knowing and all potent and powerful. Only God knew of the immense pain in the world. Today, boundaries around knowledge cease to exist and images of unbearable suffering penetrateour hearts, bodies and minds hourly. Consequently, there is an enormous amount of Promethean talk about humans becoming God-like with the power we wield. Ignoring the fact that such talk does not take into account the infinite power of cosmos, these erroneous conversations forget divinity is not merely the infinity of power but also the infinity of pain. As our power of knowledge increases so does our awareness of the depth of suffering. In one way, we are potent likegods; we have the never previously known ability to acquire depths of understanding and graphic detail about the horrific pain happening across the planet. Yet, while we know an enormous amount about the reality of suffering around the globe, we experience ourselves as impotent. We feel powerless. Unlike the gods, we are rendered powerless to heal the hurt surrounding us. For most of us, the only way we are capable of responding is to close our hearts.

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The text in this document was taken from a first draft text of the forthcoming book The Path and Practice of Outrageous Love by Dr. Marc Gafni and Dr. Kristina Kincaid. This article elaborates on a critical advancement of the Unique Self Dharma that Marc has developed after Your Unique Self was published.

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Dr. Marc Gafni: Evolutionary Unique Self & the Unique Self Symphony2023-06-17T14:20:30-07:00
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