Unique Self Process: Taught for the First Time Ever in Public — May 19 – 21, 2012
What: Unique Self Process: Taught for the First Time Ever in Public
When: May 19 – 21, 2012
Where: Venwoude Retreat Center in Holland. Inexpensive flights available.
Who: Dr. Marc Gafni and Mauk Pieper: Unique Self Process: First Three Days
Who: Dr. Marc Gafni and Chahat Corten, Pauline Botden
The Principles and Practices of Unique Self Enlightenment
The Democratization of Enlightenment Begins with You!
Principle and Practice 1: The Invitation and Responsibility of Unique Self
Unique Self: The Evolutionary Context
The Four Pillars of Unique Self
Two Tastes: Being and Becoming
Principle and Practice 2: The Glory of the Story
Personal and Impersonal Enlightenment
Live Your Story: Mythologize Don’t Pathologize
Details Matter: The Time Line and Trajectory of Your Life
Principle and Practice 3: False Core, False Self, and the Trajectory of Identity
Personality Types
False Core, False Self WHOLE WEEK ON THIS
Principle and Practice 4: Awakening: Evolution Beyond Ego
True Self, True Identity
Paths of Practice to Awaken Your Unique Self
Unique Self and Transcendence
Principle and Practice 5: Awakening: Evolution Beyond Ego
Five Differences Between Unique Self and Ego
The Democratization of Enlightenment
The New Enlightenment
Principle and Practice 6: Unique Wound and Unique Shadow
The Shadow: Three Steps Beyond Jung
Shadow and the New Enlightenment
Follow Your Shadow to Your Unique Self
Principle and Practice 7: Unique Gifts, Unique Delight and Unique Obligation
What is your Unique Self?
What are your Unique Gifts?
What is your Unique Purpose?
Principle and Practice 8: Evolutionary We Space
The creation of the Unique We
Five Principles and Practice which invoke the Miracle of We
Public Enlightenment: The Next Evolutionary Leap
Joy is a Unique Obligation, by Dr. Marc Gafni
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Thoughts on The Unique Self
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Crisis of Imagination, by Dr. Marc Gafni
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Discerning the Patterns that Connect, Dr. Marc Gafni
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The Five Great Awakenings ~ by Dr. Marc Gafni
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Three Steps to God: Awakening Your Evolutionary Creativity… by Dr. Marc Gafni
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Evolution of Love, Marc Gafni — Nov. 11 – 13 and Nov. 15, 2011
Evolution of Love
by Marc Gafni
Are you ready to participate consciously in the Evolution of Love?
If you are then come to study and practice with spiritual luminary Dr. Marc Gafni.
Short video
Dates:
3 day workshop 11-13th nov 2011
1 day workshop 15th nov 2011
“I love you.”
Consider the impact that these words””spoken in the right place, at the right time, by the right person, in the right way””have had on your life. In our time, so many of the old words of the sacred have lost their capacity to move us, dethroned by the rigorous critiques of modernity and postmodernity. But the authentic expression of love always holds a radical power to touch and even transform our lives.
We sometimes wait our whole lives to hear “I love you” spoken with total authenticity.
We may wait even longer to be able to say it. But to hear or speak these words sincerely is a complete affirmation of all that is sacred. For many of us today, the words “love” and “meaning” are virtually indistinguishable.
Yet, what do we mean by “love”? Is love simply the tender feeling you have for a friend or a relative, a lover, or a spouse? Or is there something more profound about love’s meaning, something that accounts for its power to transform a life, in every way?
Love is more than just a feeling. Enlightened teachers through the ages have told us that love is the dynamic ground of all reality. If that’s true, then love can be seen as the actual force that drives evolution””the force the Greeks called Eros””as well as the enlivening joy that opens the heart.
So what is love, when we see it from both a personal and an evolutionary perspective? How do we find it, nurture it, and sustain it? Modern science and philosophy point out that all levels of reality are evolving. The world of today is wildly different then the world of yesterday. Matter, body, mind, and even spirit are in flux. When we understand the profound evolutionary context of life, we realize that love must be evolving as well.
Wow: The Evolution of Love
What a wild, important, and profound idea! Simply put: the meaning, purpose, and vision of love is changing. In our time, the great truths about love””taught in different languages by teachers of every tradition are being re-shaped by modern and postmodern considerations. In this unique conversation, we engage these truths through an Integral lens.
The Essence of Relationship is Love
Some hold Love to be the animating core of all of reality. Love is the Eros that drives evolution, even as it is the joy that moves our heart and fills our being. And, put simply: if all levels of reality evolve, then love must evolve as well!
This Evolution Needs Your Participation
We are gathering at Venwoude to explore and experience: The Future of Love – Evolutionary Integral Relationships to transform our “love lives” on a personal level and map a vision of where relationships will evolve for all humankind.
Guiding Inquiries
- ”In an evolving universe, and in our evolving lives, what is the future of love and relationship?
- ”As you evolve personally, how do you tap the great depth and fire locked inside each of your relationships?
- ”How do you turn your relationships into the ultimate spiritual practice?
- ”What startling insights and possibilities come alive for you when your relationships are seen through an Integral evolutionary context?
- ”How do your relationships””your friendships, romantic partnerships, organizational encounters, and spiritual connections””help raise your level of consciousness as an individual? And how do you help raise others?
- ”What is your totally unique way of being in relationship and what unique practices should you be doing to make your relationships even better?
- ”What do the great wisdom traditions reveal about the “second person of spirit”””and how do we move beyond myths of the traditions while living more of the meaning?
Workshop Marc Gafni
November 15th
Integral Leadership: Your Unique Gift.
Every human being has a particular set of gifts that they can offer in the world. What are your unique gifts? The nature of the gift, like the perspective held by every human being, is utterly unique. The ability to offer this gift freely in the world depends on our ability to free ourselves of limiting and false notions of who we are, and identify with our larger service. Some of our gifts are modest, private, and intimate ””some are larger than life and have dramatic impact in the public sphere. However, every Unique Gift arises and may be offered in all four quadrants. From a non-dual perspective, your unique gift creates your unique obligation. In the language of one teacher of Unique Self, Man’s deed is God’s need.
God needs your service. God, in the first, second, and third person, needs your service. To live your Unique Self and offer your Unique Gifts is to align yourself with the evolutionary impulse and fulfill your evolutionary obligation as a Lover.
Living as an Evolutionary Lover is the passionate path of the New Enlightenment. The way you make this path real and alive in your life is by identifying and giving your Unique Gifts. Buddhism teaches the Enlightenment of Emptiness. To do this you must dis-identify with you personality story. And this is fully half the story.
The second half of the story is the Enlightenment of Fullness. To realize the enlightenment of fullness you must fully inhabit, embody and Live Your Story.
There are four key steps in this process:
- Evolve beyond exclusive identification with ego
- Take off the mask of your particular false self
- Identify your Unique Gift
- Begin to give your Unique Gift in the world
Newest Thinking on Unique Self, from a dialogue with Bert Parlee and Marc Gafni, at the recent Integral Leadership Collaborative
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If You’re Still Lonely, Call Lola by Marc Gafni
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Exploring the Edge of Evolution Series with Mike Wombacher & Dustin DiPerna
Join Mike Wombacher and Dustin DiPerna for a series of three discussions in which they will compare the perspectives of the Integral lens and the lens of Evolutionary Enlightenment on three key issues of this emerging new worldview.
The evenings are designed to maximize engagement and intersubjective emergence. Mike and Dustin will set the course for each evening with a 15 to 20 minute discussion in which they will explore various themes related to the evening’s topic. Each night there will be opportunities to be part of a smaller group discussion as well as a larger discussion group facilitated by Mike and Dustin.
The emphasis will be on exploration, discovery and evolved intersubjective engagement as we all build our understanding through collective inquiry into the subtleties of this emerging new worldview. We hope you can join us for this exploration and exercise in community building…and please feel free to bring an interested friend!
Join us in a collective exploration of creative friction as we dive into:
Part 1: The Evolutionary & Integral Context – Thursday, June 9
Part 2: The Unique Self & The Authentic Self – Tuesday, June 28
Part 3: The Evolutionary Approach to Shadow &
The Integral Approach to Shadow – Thursday, July 14
Save the dates!
Rudramandir in the Lotus Room
830 Bancroft Way
Berkeley, CA
Cost – $15 per date
Special Price if you purchase all 3 nights – $39
Register here
*This event is sponsored by The Center for World Spirituality, EnlightenNext, and Bay Area integral.
Integrity, Spiritual Teachers, and a School for Integral Spirituality
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Reply to Spiritual Teachers Concerning Their Responses to the Integrales Forum’s Position Paper
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Unique Self and the Teacher-Student Relationship by Marc Gafni
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Simplicity Beyond Complexity: The Question Is the Answer (A Response to Suffering) by Marc Gafni
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Now Accepting Private Students
Step into the Heart of World Spirituality Trans-lineage Practice…
Contact Dr. Marc Gafni at support@centerforintegralwisdom.org for private study or to book a public teaching
The future of our world depends on the great realization of love: that which unites us is infinitely greater then that which divides us. For the first time in the history of the human race, we are able to rise beyond the place of our birth, our religion of origin, our family circle and choose to live our highest truth. This truth transcends and includes all of our personal history even as it invites us to our singular and unique evolutionary destiny.
The Spiritual teaching for this age must be drawn from all of the great traditions of Spirit, pre-modern, modern, and post-modern. These great understandings must be lovingly integrated into a space of open heart, community and insight that has the power and the compassion to guide us on the next stage of our personal and global journey.
The lineages are the great teachings of Spirit developed by the great communities and masters of all the ages, in all parts of the world. Translineage means that we are moving towards transcending and including the Great Heart, Mind, and Body truths of all these lineages into an evolutionary integral Spiritual teaching. This is a down to earth, elegant, gorgeous teaching which embraces* all facets of your Unique Life.
Until very recently, you, like many other people received the lineage transmission of the Spiritual system that was dominant in your place of birth. You may have received it consciously. More likely, like most people in modernity, you received it unconsciously.
By lineage transmission we mean the absorption into your being of the great ideas, insights, maps, heart and mind knowings of a great tradition of Spirit, by whose lights you could orient and guide your life.
Usually the Spiritual transmission that you received was confused and diluted at best. You did not know quite how to integrate the apparently contradictory insights of modernity and post- modernity with what you understood to be the great truths of the wisdom traditions.
Considerations
What are the lodestones that can guide your ethical, Spiritual, and psychological journey through life?
Or…
Are you tragically destined *to stumble around on your own, alienated and isolated from larger currents and contexts of meaning?
How do you integrate the deep knowing of your heart aflame with the sober detachment of third-person study such as Science?
How do you weave together your profound desire for the Eros of sacred community with the prized autonomy and vaunted pseudo-skepticism of Western education?
And if you are to find your way back to the space of inner insight held by the lineages, which lineage to choose?
Historically you have been limited to the particular truth of your lineage. The problem is that this particular truth all too often seemed to deny or contradict many of the intuitively important teachings you heard from other paths.
You responded to this conscious or unconscious confusion on one of three core ways.
1. Sometimes you abandoned Spirit altogether and turned to the brilliant- if flatland – guides * of third-person objective knowledge. You looked to psychology to guide your inner process and for relational love to illuminate your heart. You looked to science to provide order and implicit meaning in your life.
But it did not quite work.
You greatly honored the wisdom of science. You appreciated the dignities it afforded you. Yet it’s flatland limitation and exterior functional orientation could never address the deepest yearning of your heart. **Without a firm grounding in the depth of Spirit you expected too much from your “Special Relationship”. In fact you became addicted to your “Special Relationship” expecting it to be a panacea for all of your dis-ease. The result: Your Special Relationship collapsed under the weight of pressure it was never meant to bare.
2. Sometimes you abandoned the core insights of modernity and post-modernity and aligned yourself with the goods of an old religion.
Even though you knew that it did not quite all hang together…
In your calculus, the goods of community, ethical guidance and personal relationship with the source of all being outweighed the shadows of the religious system you chose.
So you compartmentalized your life with the modern and post-modern person showing up in the world and the pre-modern old time religionist showing up at home and in church.
More often then not you took the third way.
3. You became a dilettante consumer of Spirituality from wherever you could get it. At the same time that you absorbed the truth of modern science you imbibed the post-modern critiques of all objective truth. You never really worked it out. Your heart sometimes opened, but most of the time remained closed. You had occasional wondrous experiences of community, but most of the time you were alone. You were not sure how to even begin to integrate your Spiritual knowing and beliefs into a coherent system by which to guide your life. So you latched on to some aphorisms, perhaps a practice here and there and started to try and navigate your way through life. (more…)
The Future of Love
It seems like just yesterday we gathered at the Asilomar Conference Center in Pacific Grove, California for year one of the Integral Spiritual Experience. If you attended or heard about what transpired, you know that the collective intention of the 500+ participants led by teachers like Ken Wilber, Dr. Marc Gafni, Sally Kempton, Lama Surya Das, and Jean Houston raised the energetic roof on a new era in Integral Spirituality gatherings, diving deeply into our Unique Selves. It’s a tough act to follow, but in this extraordinary dialogue, Ken and Marc set the context for the Integral Spiritual Experience Year 2 exploration entitled: The Future of Love – Evolutionary Integral Relationships.
Who doesn’t want to transform their love lives with husbands, wives, partners, family members, and friends? In this dialogue Ken and Marc explore “The Miracle of We”, the space of mutuality that so defines our human experience. When we look into the eyes of love, who is really looking back at us? Are we just separate selves desperately seeking companionship, or are we perhaps each a unique expression of Spirit itself?
In this lively exchange Ken and Marc dive into the following questions:
- What is love?
- How do we find it, nurture and sustain it?
- How does our conscious participation change the evolution of love?
- What are the structural patterns in the Evolution of Love?
- What are the evolutionary Integral skills of love and relationship that have the power to deepen our realization and to liberate our true and unique self?
- What new gifts for the world can emerge from this evolution?
Click here for more information on Integral Spiritual Experience Year 2: The Future of Love.
Ken Wilber is the most widely translated academic writer in America, with 25 books translated into some 30 foreign languages, and is the first philosopher-psychologist to have his Collected Works published while still alive. Wilber is an internationally acknowledged leader and the preeminent scholar of the Integral stage of human development, which continues to gather momentum around the world. His many books, all of which are still in print, can be found at Amazon.com. Some of his more popular books include Integral Spirituality; No Boundary; Grace and Grit; Sex, Ecology, Spirituality; and the “everything” books: A Brief History of Everything (one of his largest selling books) and A Theory of Everything (probably the shortest introduction to his work). Ken Wilber is the founder of Integral Institute, Inc., the co-founder of Integral Life, Inc., and the Senior Fellow of Integral Life Spiritual Center.
Dr. Marc Gafni holds his doctorate from Oxford University. He is a rabbi and an iconoclastic teacher of Kabbalah and World Spirituality. He is the director with Ken Wilber, Sally Kempton and Diane Hamilton of the Integral Life Spiritual Center and core founder and faculty member of iEvolve: Global Practice Community. He has written seven books, including the national bestseller Soul Prints, and The Mystery of Love, an exploration of the relationship between the sexual, the erotic, and the sacred. Gafni’s teaching is marked by a deep transmission of open heart, love and leading edge provocative wisdom. Gafni’s path of personal evolution, in both the agony and the ecstasy of what he calls “sacred autobiography,” woven together with profound reverence and reading of sacred texts have formed the context for his teaching. It is from this place of broken-hearted humility, radical joy and sacred audacity that he teaches. Gafni is considered by many to be a visionary voice in the founding of a new World Spirituality.
*Originally posted on Integral Life
The Future of Love Teleseries
Participate in the Future of Love Teleseries!
“I Love You.”
Consider the impact that these words””spoken in the right place, at the right time, by the right person, in the right way””have had on your life. In our time, so many of the old words of the sacred have lost their capacity to move us, dethroned by the rigorous critiques of modernity and post modernity. But the authentic expression of love always holds a radical power to touch and even transform our lives.
We sometimes wait our whole lives to hear “I love you” spoken with total authenticity.
We may wait even longer to be able to say it. But to hear or speak these words sincerely is a complete affirmation of all that is sacred. For many of us today, the words ”˜love’ and ”˜meaning’ are virtually indistinguishable.
Yet, what do we mean by “love”? Is love simply the tender feeling you have for a friend or a relative, a lover or a spouse? Or is there something more profound about love’s meaning, something that accounts for its power to transform a life, in every way?
Love is more than just a feeling. Enlightened teachers through the ages have told us that love is the dynamic ground of all reality. If that’s true, then love can be seen as the actual force that drives evolution””the force the Greeks called Eros””as well as the enlivening joy that opens the heart.
So what is love, when we see it from both a personal and an evolutionary perspective? How do we find it, nurture it, and sustain it?
Modern science and philosophy point out that all levels of reality are evolving. The world of today is wildly different then the world of yesterday. Matter, body, mind and even spirit are in flux. When we understand the profound evolutionary context of life, we realize that love must be evolving as well. (more…)